I am not....

At the glorious age of 45, I find myself being reflective and introspective. Maybe it is that my children are more independent or Himself is working away from home more but I actually have time to think.  Thinking a bit about what I am and then thinking more about what I am not which is every bit as important.  So here is a list (by no means exhaustive)

I am not

• My children
• My partner
• My weight
• My curly hair
• A religion
• My consumption of food or alcohol
• My wealth or poverty
• My house
• My mother

Sometimes I need to remind myself of that.